tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25724565.post3808792165894617875..comments2009-06-21T20:53:47.333-04:00David Cunninghamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15809530516902338904noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25724565.post-42791254734231554862009-06-21T20:53:47.333-04:002009-06-21T20:53:47.333-04:00I&#39;d be happy to help you with your problem, but it is off-topic, so if you will e-mail me at support@makingherhappy.com we will continue.<br /><br />DavidDavid Cunninghamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15809530516902338904noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25724565.post-85419629549615832992009-06-21T02:32:29.910-04:002009-06-21T02:32:29.910-04:00I know this is a guys blog. But focusing on guys here and how they think. What can I do about my situation. I hope you can get back to me thank you.<br /><br />I have been in a relationship for almost two years. My relationship was great and heading forward. Now my relationship is having issues which I think are very simple to solve but I cannot seem to know how since I have tried many alternatives. My boyfriend has been acting distant for the past year. (long time I know) and ever since I havent been able to get him to come close again as he use to be. He has a profile online and he talks to several girls to which he tells me there only online girlfriends only. I believe him yes, because the girls are not from the country he is living in, but the problem is that sometimes he is more interesting is speaking to those girls than to me. Inclusively when he is chatting with me he tells me that he&#39;s gonna leave and then he stays chatting with other girls. I have talk to him about this and I have told him how bad I feel because I truly do. He also doesnt call me like he use to, I try an try and cannot seem to get him to call this part is my fault though because he doesnt call me because I am very shy over the phone so he tells me that that makes him not want to speak to him. So okay I told him that I was sorry and that I was going to work on not being shy. So for the moment while I am working on it that I continue to chat with him but when I try he always wiats for me to initiate the conversation, I ask him stuff about himself to get to know him even more but he never really initiates the conversation, if we spend atleast 2 hours chatting I am the one talking at the most and he is speaking with me and other girls as well. I ask him if there is anything I can help with incase his job or anything is making him stress I want to understand him. But he tells me that the problem is that since we are far the (relationship is long distance) he sometimes feels lonely and acts like that. He said he is willing to wait until he sees me. We have waited for two years, I will see him next year, so thats the other issue how can I keep him interested when he seems to leave everything in my hands. Last he also tells me that he is willing to wait but that he doesnt know for how long because he wants to have a kid. He&#39;s 21 and I am 18 I told him we need to wait because I want to keep focuse in school still. But he says he wants a kid now. I am afraid he may later change his mine and just leave with another girl for that but I will try to be ready and put myself first before any guy. Love comes from within I understand. The issues are simple but my bf doesnt seem to cooperate. Please help with any advice because I want to keep my relationship.Madelinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05069116585196456735noreply@blogger.com